Being Gay comes out of over protective parenting, guilt and treating a son like a girl etc., It has nothing to do with biology(nature) but has everything to do with nurture...
I am a bisexual myself(meaning i like both men and women). I have have found it in me that my over protective parenting caused guilt towards watching naked women, so that slowely diverted me to looking at guys too, so i feel less guilty and sinful.
So it is the same varition of upbring that causes it.. u cant avoid it.. man in general is dictated by his mind.. so unless we all become Buddhas we will never get over such things like sexuality, religion, countries and other dividive things the mind creates.
RE:Gay
by Karthik Soundar on Feb 27, 2008 01:43 PM Permalink
A man does not play a majore roll in upbringing anyway.. it is the mother that teaches everything.. the base of a childs early psychology is built by the mother.. So i will do what other fathers do.. sit at office and come home late and play with my kid a bit before going to sleep..
Its only when he really needs my guidance i can help him.. and i am sure i quite knowledgable for that.. and thats not till he is atleast 15..
RE:Gay
by Vue on Apr 23, 2008 05:25 PM Permalink
Dear Idiots,
Thank you very much for your very useful comments. Lord Krishna had many seductive affairs with many girls, polygamous. Please advice me whether I should support polygamy or not? 1. Homosexuality is a common phenomenon in all mammals, but 'not' inter-species sex. So don't equate bestiality with homosexuality or bisexuality. If cannot accept these facts of Science, please do not ever see a doctor and take medicines, because they are all based on the same scientific principles. Drugs are first tested in mammals before prescribed to us. 2. India was a very liberal society. It was the later Islamic and Victorian (British) influence that has criminalised homosexuality, oppressed women, etc. We are naturally accepting with works, such as, Kamasutra, etc., that are considered, rightfully, holy. Conservative Indians like you are, thus, anti-Indian; they are more Islamic- and Christian-fundamentalist (in the middle east and bible-belt America, respectively) like. 3. Following on no. 1 above, as pointed out by others, incest is forbidden at different levels and degrees with varying degree of relatedness in different cultures. Moreover, it evolved (culturally) in civilisation to prevent genetic defects and diseases. Full stop. 4. Sexuality is multigenic. In fact, scientific evidence shows that it is a cumulation of many good characteristics, such as, niceness in a male, etc. Hence, contrary to popular misbeliefs, they are likely to be much nicer and kinder people.
