I totally agree with you.. I am from a TAM-Bram family too , but I am more comfortable inHindi and Punjabi as my father worked in public sector in the north all his life.. Am married to a Telugu and my kids speak six languages with ease..My Bro who cannot speak tamil to save his life is married to a kanndiga and we all sit down to Bisibele with relish.. Now he is in Mumbai.. and if they ask him to go home.. where will he go.. I ma seeing similar questions being raised on the Telengana issue here at Hyd..