TYPICAL INDIAN STRESS IS 'I WANT TO BE LIKE THE NEXT DOOR PERSON'....THEN U STOP LIVING FOR UR OWN SELF AND START TO STRESS URSELF TRYING TO BE MR SOMEBODY...PARENTS ALWAYS TELL THEIR KIDS..RAHUL IS BETTER THAN U..TRY TO BE LIKE HIM...POOR FELLOW BEGINS TO APE RAHUL...THIS IS THE PROBLEMS MOST INDIANS HAVE...MY WIFE WANTS TO DRESS UP LIKE MR THOMAS WIFE...I SIMPLY SAID THE SAREE LOOKS GOOD ON HER..BUT IT WILL LOOK HORRIBLE ON U..SO BE URSELF FIND THINGS WHICH MAKE U LOOK BETTER AND MORE COMFORTABLE RATHER THAN TO APE SOMEONE AND FINALLY DRAIN ALL UR RESOURCES....SIMPLY TOLD U CANNOT AND SHOULD NEVER TRY TO APE OR THINK LIKE MR.x...BE URSELF AND GET CONTENTED LOOKING AT UR SELF AND UR OWN SELF IN THE MIRROR..BE HAPPY..LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO FOOL AROUND WEARING WIGS AND DISGUISES..FIND UR OWNSELF AND FIND UR OWN HAPPINESS..BE URSELF...GOOD LUCK AND HAPPY LIVING..GOD BLESS
RE:WHY APE OTHERS?
by S Shrikanth on Feb 28, 2008 10:42 AM Permalink
Typical stress in Indian youth today is "I want to reach where my boss is in the next 2 years".
RE:WHY APE OTHERS?
by Sanjeet Deb on Feb 28, 2008 12:05 PM Permalink
Seriously friend.We always want to ape somebody who is performing.Our society has formulated all these so called social status,money etc.This system has brought a mess everywhere. people talk about 'survival of the fittest' not realising the context in which Darwin might have propounded.Survival of the fittest doesnt mean you get everybodys neck and outbeat.Our Indian system of making social discrimination based on terms of money,success,fame has created a very high stress levels for ourselves.We neednot join the 'Jones' and its better not join these stereo typed mentality and enjoy and continue doing things that we like doing most.