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Lets not interfere in anyone's life
by pooja nagpal on Aug 04, 2008 05:44 PM   Permalink | Hide replies

Dear Friends,
Who are we to take the decisions of other people's lives and comment on their morality?
If those who are calling the mother names had a mentally retared child or a child with a disease which makes his/ her life uncertain and miserable , what would they do themselves ?
No One knows how we ourselves will react in face of such adversities.
It is the responsibility of the govt. to provide good and free medical care to all of us like in other developed countries.
After all we pay taxes.
To see a child unhappy struggling suffering and dying would be such a pain for the mother and may be she does not have enough strength to deal with it. There is every possibility that the doctors may be right or wrong. May be the child could lead a healthy life later on if provided good medical care or with the medical advances anything could be possible.
Or the child brings suffering to himself and his parents.. This may also be true.
There is nothing white or black.
To bring a life into this world is a decision that parents make. Let them decide and may God be with the mother to give her the strength to decide whatever is right for them.
'Judge not so that you may not be judged.'
God Bless all.





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by Mahesh on Aug 04, 2008 05:51 PM   Permalink
So if the parents suspect that the child might have abnormality it is enough to abort even if over 20 weeks? Parents take the role of God? Where they sleeping the first 20 weeks? If they develop cold feet they can give the baby to an ashram. They don't care for the baby anyway.

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by eskinol on Aug 04, 2008 06:29 PM   Permalink
You can call whatever you want the role of God. Why should these parents suffer for your God? Their God tells them unborn handicapped fetuses aren't as important as their own well-being. If you have moral arguments to make, make them, WITHOUT religion. Hinduism, Islam etc aren't how this country decides what is right and what is wrong.

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by ANTHONY SHEERAN on Aug 04, 2008 05:55 PM   Permalink
CARDIAC ABNORMALITIES ARE DETECTED AFTER 20 WEEKS ONLY--SO THEY WERE NOT SLEEPING

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by Bunty on Aug 04, 2008 05:47 PM   Permalink
those selfish who want to see child killed have no right to have any babies.


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by sanjay on Aug 04, 2008 05:45 PM   Permalink
well said!

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HC refuses abortion of 26-week foetus