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Woman cheating woman
by ASHA JAIN on Nov 02, 2007 12:45 PM   Permalink | Hide replies

I hope this will not turn to a racket! Who knows the trade is not a woman cheating another woman. Do you feel that Patil is doing this as a service not a business. And exploiting a womans' womb, never nobody dared ever to do this before. How can you justify ? a unmarried becoming a surrogate mother ? During the pregnancy, if anything bad happens, there is a risk that, never she will become pregnant again ! It is very dangerous and risky for unmarried woman who becomes a surrogate mother. She may not can deliver her own kids later ! To address all these, it should become a legal matter. There should be some regulation, which checks, only a mother can be made a surrogate mother. And also, these clinics and doctors should be under the scanner. THese buggers will make more money than a surrogate mother makes. That is not justice. The motherhood cannot be linked for money and business, rather it is a gift. I dont want to see India as a cheap destination for world to get surrogate mothers. Let other countries also find surrogate mothers in their country. Let Indian couples find, surrogate mothers from India. I want to see India as a great Nation, not as a place for all these illegal and cheap activites. Why this doctor herself dont want to be surrogate mother, and earn crores in this activity. Simply pushing unmarried and innocent woman to this trade ? See Dr. Patil's a smiling face to cheat the innocents of this country!

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  RE:Woman cheating woman
by Author on Nov 02, 2007 12:55 PM   Permalink
Are you a doctor, to decide this? It is her(patel) job to see that a surrogate mother is fit post-delivery. Thats the reason doctors are called professionals

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by AVINASH TRIPATHI on Nov 02, 2007 01:03 PM   Permalink
How do u know that an unmarried women can not become a sarrogate mother and only mother can become mother. Was your own mother was a mother before giving a birth to her first child.

Please before writting anything just think it once.


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by ASHA JAIN on Nov 02, 2007 04:51 PM   Permalink
The convention we should be having is that, a woman should be married, then have children. We belong to that kind of a family setup. Why one should be a unmarried mother? is not that a social evil ? If she deliver her own kid first, and then needed, if she takes risk for other is not a good idea ? Instead, she sacrifeis herself for the peanuts? 2000 rupees per month. Instead if she works as a house maid, cant she earn so much ? Why she need to change the family values or our traditional values, for whom she donot know before ? Is it not a simple theory ? Are we not having so many social evils in our society today? Do we need to get some more ?

Including developed countries, dnt do these kind of scientific researches in the basic things. Why indian woman need to surrogate for someone out of our circle or country? Dont we look so cheap in the global front? we sell and rent our motherhood? body ? womb? everything ? Do we left with any human values later !

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