but i call it exploitation of poor women in 3rd country plus this help is not recognised or apperciated by westerns as GENUNINE help they infact make fun of it and mark it as sign of pure downtrodden poverty in india out of which women r ready to sell themselves in anyway they can . they pass cruel swearing marks on india n indian women becoz of this so called HELP
RE:u might call it help
by ann on Nov 01, 2007 09:32 PM Permalink
You can not deny there is lot of poverty in rural India and no justice for poor women. If they are doing this out of desperation then we have to change the system from within. People criticisizing it or not does not matter.
RE:u might call it help
by r patil on Nov 01, 2007 10:19 PM Permalink
In the same light Indian hindu see Christain missinery help to poor hindus to convert as exploitation and not help.Do tell this to western people,they should now what hindus think of their help for the converted poor.
RE:u might call it help
by Loan Shark on Nov 02, 2007 05:10 AM Permalink
you are right! .... these dharam-ke-thekedars will yell "hindusim khatre mein hai" ... and "this is unethical" when someone wants to help some poor in return of somthing - be it surrogate motherhood or conversion of religion ... but will never come to help them ... it's like saying I won't help you and if you take anyone's help I'll oppose it on moral grounds
Begging is totally acceptable .... being raped by sants and shankaracharya is ok too ... but not being a surrogate mother.