Before blaming the BAHU let us blame the legal system for creating such a BAHU. These laws tend to westernize india. In western countries parents dont care for children and children dont care for parents. We are heading towards that. I have seen the kind of lonely lives the westerners lead. I prefer our tradition and culture which is having more harmony. Modern BAHU does not like the husband's mother and sister to stay in the same household.
Now let me come to your issue of why not blame the son... Son wants his mom and sister to live happily in the house. But everyday his wife throws tantrums on his mother and sister. Unable to bear this anymore his mother and sister feel they get peace of mind outside that house and move out. This is what is happening in most of our houses. SHAME ON WOMENS ORGANIZATIONS FOR CREATING LAWS WHICH FAVOR A DAUGHTER IN LAW AND HARASS MORE WOMEN IN THE HOUSE. I WANT ALL THE MOTHERS AND SISTERS OF HUSBANDS TO BOYCOT THE WOMENS DAY.
RE:Shame to legal system.
by Krishna on Mar 08, 2007 07:41 PM Permalink
I agree. It is a waste of time celebrating these stupid days and calling themselves "Stree shakti" and such nonsense. The most important thing is being human. First be a good human and try to do good to others irrespective of the genders. There is no point in women saying that "Women are Great". remember, if u say that man can as well say that "Man is Great". I hope these so-called feminists, women activists(Good-for-nothing) realise this and instead of raising voices on unneccessary issues, if they are really worried about humanity, they should do some real social service.
