Its a pity that a modern bahu has ruined the structure of family by misusing the laws which favor her. Moreover our stupid system does not provide any rights to elderly.Elderly people work all their life like slaves and finally get such a treatment from their BAHU .
RE:Are our law makers observing this?
by chandrakant ekkirala on Mar 08, 2007 01:58 AM Permalink
dont blame bahus man..blame the son, because if the son is strong enough there wont be any problem between the wife and the mother..dont get influenced by the TV serials..
RE:Are our law makers observing this?
by I Parihar on Mar 08, 2007 12:44 AM Permalink
why blame the Bahu? blame your son and the upbringing. its so easy to blame the Bahu because she is someone else's daughter, why treat her as an outsider and discriminate?
RE:RE:Are our law makers observing this?
by samudra blr on Mar 08, 2007 01:09 AM Permalink
Before blaming the BAHU let us blame the legal system for creating such a BAHU. These laws tend to westernize india. In western countries parents dont care for children and children dont care for parents. We are heading towards that. I have seen the kind of lonely lives the westerners lead. I prefer our tradition and culture which is having more harmony. Modern BAHU does not like the husband's mother and sister to stay in the same household.
Now let me come to your issue of why not blame the son... Son wants his mom and sister to live happily in the house. But everyday his wife throws tantrums on his mother and sister. Unable to bear this anymore his mother and sister feel they get peace of mind outside that house and move out. This is what is happening in most of our houses. SHAME ON WOMENS ORGANIZATIONS FOR CREATING LAWS WHICH FAVOR A DAUGHTER IN LAW AND HARASS MORE WOMEN IN THE HOUSE. I WANT ALL THE MOTHERS AND SISTERS OF HUSBANDS TO BOYCOT THE WOMENS DAY.
