Dear Author, Above all of what you said, We must love our country irrespective of how is it. That is when we start working for betterment. If I see someone criticise India, as if all other countries are doing well, I call them as anti-nationals. People are human everywhere and basic natures dont change. What changes is the organization. I went to UK, US, Canada, Netherlands, France and many countries. I see people saying sorry, excuse me, Thanks in each of their sentenses, all people religiously follow traffic rules and maintain cleanliness wherever they are. However I explored further and all I understand is they are no different from us. They follow rules because rules are very strong and violation has strong implications. I also see many negative points like violent children, Perversions, single mothers and psychopaths. Once again these are results of country laws. For example, in UK you cant control children beyond a point. There, kids demand and threatens you if you say something they dont like. So what is the fun of criticizng our country? Whatever it is we must love India and our fellow Indians. If certain things are wrong we must work for how to resolve them. And the improvement starts from home.From myside, I started educating my kids on behaving well and on showing concern to others in shared places. For example, I told my kids to start 15 minutes early instead of rushing and crossing red lights, blocking free left riders,driving in wrong ways and overtaking others for a race.For all this, I explained them that road is a shared resource and we cant get just what we want at the cost of others. My approach was to make people within my control, understand and show concern to others. Looks silly but it works and I am sure, not all parents tell this. I heard parents telling just the opposite to manage similar issue(like "rush yourself, dont waste your time like fool for others").That is how we see people behaving nastily on roads. From the Govt side, it may be approach to make law strong to make us show concern by force.
