Mr Mike Gandhi I know everyone is free to keep their own names, but a small advice as a friend. Pls change your name you are insulting Gandhiji by writting all this non sensical things and adopting Gandhiji's last name. You should use Jinha Jinha or something like that.
RE:Please change your name
by Indiya on Mar 16, 2007 03:35 AM Permalink
Many of my muslims friends (girls) insist on a proper court marriage like other hindu or christian couples, because they do not have surity or security of marriage as per muslim law. 3 times talaak talaak and marriage is over!!! She might be forced for it.
One more thing : Pls get over or grow over this devdasi thing, it looks like you are obsesed with it rather than condemning it. It is that social evil of Indian society which is condemned by all religions and sects in India and everywhere.
By the way muslim women are not at all emancipated even today, look at what happened to women in Aghanistan during taliban rule, women in Iran in Khomeni rule, even in India I have a muslim friend who eloped with an hindu boy whom she loved and she is very happy for last 7 yrs of marriage, because she can wear normal , colorful clothes, she has no restrictions, her say is taken into consideration, she's not treated as a child bearing machine to give birth to 3,4,5 and many children. At the same time she gets respect, protection , care and love from her husband and all her family members. She has no plan to contact her parents or relatives because she doesn't want to go back to restricted and suffocating life. Also education is given to hindu and muslim and christian women alike, but the religious/ cultural traditions for women are very rigid in islam, many muslim girls also agree but they are afraid to open their minds.
Please if there are any loopholes in way of life people belonging to a particular group , one must accept it is incorrect and do something to change it asap.Even in case of Aurangzeb, he was a cruel king in a bigger way than some of his good deeds ,we should all condemn it and tell the future generation not to follow the bad examples and look at good people like Akbar, shivaji and many more Hindu or muslim kings alike.
To All:
I know a hindu god man who has many bad allegations on him , I detest him and condemn all his followers whenever I meet them and look down upon them. One has to get rational, rather than defending the wrong doer just because he/she is of your religion. Pls guys get rational and talk like educated bunch rather than having an barbaric word war here.
