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needs unmet
by on Aug 19, 2007 01:13 PM   Permalink

There are 5 basic emotional needs of married men and women
For MEN
1. An attractive spouse-He needs a good looking wife
2. Sexual fulfill ment
3. Recreatinal companionship-he needs her to be his play mate
4. Domestic support-he needs peace and quiet
5. Admiration-he needs her to be proud of him


For WOMEN
1. Affection
2. Conversation-ahe needs him to talk to her
3. Honesty and openness-she need to trust him totally
4. Financial support-she needs enough money to live comfortably
5. Family commitment-she needs him to be a good father




Marriage is a very special relationship. promises are made and each agrees %u201D to forsake all others%u201D giving the spouse exclusive right to meet the above intimate needs. These needs are so strong that when they are not met in marriage people are tempted to go outside marriage to satisfy them. But aside from the risk of an affair, important emotional needs should be met for the sake of care it self.

The main reason for the raising trend in divorc?n IT is the working out of hours (6.30pm to 8am on weekdays, and also the whole of weekends, Bank Holidays and public holidays)-hours which should be spent with the family.

Due to these hours both spouses fail to meet each others intimate needs.




Lets examine these in detail

MEN find that they lack domestic support, admiration



1.Domestic bliss-every mans basic emotional need
the male need for his wife to "take care of things%u201D is wide spread p

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Rising divorce rate in IT sector