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The Rising Divorce Rates--Pl. think and try.
by Ranjib chowdhury on Aug 14, 2007 12:13 PM   Permalink | Hide replies

Rising divorce rates are alarming,like global warming,at present every where in India,not just in Bangalore. May be many reasons are there to show and cite to get the divorce clean who are high-headed,self-centered,escapist and always habituated to go-getter for whatever he/she wants, also divorce, for the decision being taken for the sake of personal achievements and progress of all kinds ahead in this life. My simple friendly-tips for these kind of divorce-prone people---:would you please just think the lives of some very busy, valued,high-posted figures before our eyes, like our new President,Mrs Pratibha Patil,Mrs Sudha Murthy,Kiron Mazumder,Susma Swaraj,Margaret Alva,Sulojja Firodia Motwani-MD,Kinetic Engineering,Preeti Vyas, Renu Kapoor, Kavita Krishnamurti,Sangita Reddy, Nitu Kumar, Lushin Dubey----all are holding very very highly stressed responsibilities in career as well as devoted mothers,committed wife to her family, and very careful about own feelings,duty, life,career sans baseless excuses to satiate all-personal ego,whims,showing pretexts for just win-win go-getter in this beautiful life. So,please think ,if possible,contact them to get their secret mantras to save family from any more heady divorce. Please just think once--if the above-mentioned figures can balance both work and family--why cannot you? Just ask yourself,because you are enough educated,grown up,capable of doing many good things if try. So ask yourself first. Nothing from outside can stop you f

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by Paulose on Aug 16, 2007 09:16 AM   Permalink
I think the examples you cited in your reply are slightly out of place. You are contrasting people who are in positions of power/responsibility with those who are mere employees. The writer of the article was focussing on the latter. When you are in a position of power/influence, you can modify the environment around you the way you want. The people who are mentioned in the article are ordinary folks like you and me who do not have such power. It also has to do with an individual's ability to tolerate stress. Some people can handle a lot of stress while others relatively less or none at all.

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by TK shekar on Aug 16, 2007 12:46 PM   Permalink
well said!.well placed persolities can have their freedom than the rest.

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by Shakeel on Aug 15, 2007 02:23 PM   Permalink
it will become hurdle in the development of Banglore city nfrom my point of view

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by oxymoron on Aug 14, 2007 04:40 PM   Permalink
Yo, that was an excellent piece of motivational article. Well I am so impressed, i cant shut my mouth.

I would like to add few more - Rakhi Sawant, Koyna, etc too hold stressful responsibiliteis.
Keeping the 1 billion at bay, should be a big responsibility....



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by Sathish N on Aug 17, 2007 11:44 AM   Permalink
If there are chances of cracks appearing in your marriage and you want to save the marriage and lead a normal life, consider Ranjib's thoughts. Else, you have our oxymoron.

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by Bits the Byter on Aug 16, 2007 12:49 AM   Permalink
People in Banglore seem to be really depressed.

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by Shakeel on Aug 15, 2007 02:23 PM   Permalink
it will become hurdle in the development of Banglore city nfrom my point of view

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