1.5 years ago, when I got married, I worked in a maintainance project where I'd to work between 14:00 to 22:00 I'd lot of time to spend with my Wife.
Now I work for an upgrade project where I've to work for about 14 hours 2 days in a week & 12 hours easily everyday. I'm hardly getting time to talk to my Wife. However, I admit that since we'd spent lot of time together after marriage, we developed strong bond & that's the one that is helping our life now.
Although I travel about 80 Kms a day to work, I'm fortunate to have my work place & home in same place. Though fortunate, I'm able to spend only Sundays peacefully at home. Even during this difficult times where I'm unable to speak to my Wife, I ensure that I take off atleast once a month & spend sometime together. Believe me it help, just open up when there are conflicts & resolve them then & there, its helping us a lot.
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by Rohini Nair on Aug 02, 2007 04:24 PM Permalink
May be you have tasted the joyness of your wife enjoying your neighbour's ball everytime you step out!! That is why you always speak about neighbour. Your experience speaks so much!! Good!! Keep it up and give enough time for your wife!! Very understanding!! Keep her happy atleast that way buddy