Most of the current days (Love) marriage end in divorce because of misunderstanding about life. Love before marriage is like a dream world. You think life is like heaven and there is no obstacles and we understand each other well.
Many of them get married with the above said illution. Real world is totally different. There will be fight and friction which is inevitable. Modern Boys and Girls does not have enough patience to wait and win over their Spouse. Many of the young couples live away from their parents which is also another reason for failure of marriage. Parents will guide you through hardship of life. But the modern society and particularly Girls see their in-laws as villans. They want to live away from them and the price they pay for it, is very high like divorce.
The Western life style is a Hell. You have freedom to to anything you want and you end up in making wrong choice 90% and end up with miserable life.
Indian life style (before 2000) is the opposite, you do not have much freedom or much choice. You will learn to live with what you have and you will have a contented and long lasting relationship.
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by RamRamRam on Aug 03, 2007 12:58 AM Permalink
I am not saying divorce is bad always. But it should be the very last option. In current days the seems Divorce come as the first thing.
My point is the Modern Western Life style is driving us crazy. We are loosing Patience and Family Values. If you are hooked up to the modern life style then all my thought will be wrong for you.
RE:Patience wins....
by stepin on Aug 03, 2007 02:37 AM Permalink
Well written, the younger gen has less patience which is the root cause, it's not just male or female, the problem lies with both of them.
