mrs lakshmi pls shut ur mouth. as a girl, first u see ur own character. you said that parents have ego, prejudices etc. not at all, they have their own dignity, culture and respect in the society.
but a girl, she intentionally does not like her own caste and marrying person with other caste. this shows selfishness of girls toward love marriages in destroying status and value of parents.
MRS lakshmi she has her lovemarriage thats what supporting telling about many couples of having love marriages.
In short, girls are selfish in having love marriages, then where is the adjustment?
well, today hindu population is diminishing coz of the fact that hindu girls are purposely having love marriage with out of hindu caste boys. they are purposely approaching them by rejecting hindu boys. this is more especially found in different parts of India.
Indian country population will increase day by day, but what about HINDU people population? if hindu population reduces then is it worth to call this country as INDIA? forget about the matrimonial this is about love marriage
RE:worthless to tell about love marriage
by Lakshmi on Jun 14, 2006 12:32 AM Permalink
You have perhaps not read my comments properly. Did I ever say that all love marriages are between Hindu girls and Muslim boys? When I gave those examples, I only meant that famous personalities who are known to everyone on this forum have had successful love marriages. What about Hindu Maharashtrians marrying Hindu Bengalis? Or Hindu Tamil Brahmins marrying Hindu Kshatriya Malayalis? Is that bad for India? There are plenty of interCASTE arranged as well as love marriages these days. Parents love us, no doubt, but they sometimes think of their standing in society and their dreams for their children more than what their children themselves want. Nowhere did I mean to demean parents. All I wanted to say that just as immature youngsters stupidly run away with someone totally unsuitable and make mistakes, parents may be mistaken, too. After all, we are all humans and make mistakes.
RE:worthless to tell about love marriage
by reena on Jun 13, 2006 05:42 PM Permalink
Mr. Amar, before saying shut up to ms. laxmi, answer me a question, who makes community, culture etc.... its only we, god has not made such things, he has only made human being and a person cannot be judged on community/caste etc. Its hardly makes any difference whether you are doing Love Marriage or arrange provided an individual person is from good family background, good earning and enough capable to fullfil needs of family. dats all what else parents need for thier children
