I think that althugh personal experiences vary, I will bet you that it is a matter of personal upbringing how a person reacts to another. A good society starts at its roots...in the family. If we all make sure that in the first place, the atmosphere and ethic in our family is healthy it will spread out to be one healthy society. I feel bad for our writer here, but I want to ask him, even though the problem prevails, do you have a solution to it. Before you bring it to the table and create that feeling of our society being sick, do you have a solution, or you just wanted to complain. Can you be somone who can help? Because we have a lot of people who can complain. We actually need some doers. Be a role model, show them what Islam and all other religions are all about...respect, love and brotherhood, and after all arent these the things India was inherited with since always?