I fully endorse your views that if these two countries can not help each other at the time of this horrific natural disaster,we can never be friend.But who is to blame for this.Not even a single Indian Army person refused or objected over goverment decision to help quake victims in POK.The same can not be said about Pak Army. so much is hattred generated amongst them that they consider India as Enemy No. 1.India has the resources and infrastructure to cope up with this situation.Take example of Kachch earthquakeor or Tsunami Disaster, Indian DMG reacted sharpely and within no time help was provided to victims.
I would request the Kashmiris to forget enimity and just think of burried generation half of which could have survived had help arrived in time. Now still they can rebuild the nation provided they should not talk of terrorism or fundamentalism. Our arms are stratched and we would help whole heartedly to all the victims. Please have faith on us.