Chennai has some really f'ed up tradition and belief. the city wants to be recognised in the world for their technology and education...but when it comes to relationship and personal affairs.....it has nothing to provide or to protect someone rights to appreciate personal feeling for one they love. following tradition is good advice....but it should not be forced on people. USA has many tradition and many cultures...but government never interfers with personal lives of people. if Chennai wants to be recognised as IT mega city...than it might have to accept some other changes it brings along.