I am not an Ammerican-Indian yet but on my way and deffinitly in the "see the world" mood.This movie has really gave me a hard reality check on what i might expect and the kind of tradeoffs u need to make.Its a slow movie for most of my collegues in India and i agree cos they have never felt what it was when u live outside.The part of Kal penn loosing his father was a brillantly captured in the film.My father is an NRI and he came to know abt his mothers death only after a day,There were no cellphones at that time.That scene was the most intense for me and no movie has ever captured that reality execpt fot this.