There cannot be love without possessiveness nor jealousy.if there is then it is by certain that the person dosent care or is bottling it up inside.
but yes over jealously or possesiveness is bad and is the fault of not the one who is jealous but his/her partner.
we should ensure that our partners dont go through these emotions by constantly communicating with them. only genuine communication can lead to true love
RE:partly justified
by abcdabcd on May 23, 2008 02:19 PM Permalink
Sweet... very sweet... The girl is also to be blamed equally for the guy's jealousy.
RE:partly justified
by aravind s on May 23, 2008 02:57 PM Permalink
If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheats ,better ignore him/her once and for all.Definitely because of posessiveness , there will be heartaches .But its wise to shrug these things off and concentrate on worthwhile which brings success.Nothing succeeds like success.You we successful,wealthy,a bit famous then there will be a lot of love.
RE:partly justified
by Arthur on May 23, 2008 02:14 PM Permalink
the best post abt the topic i have read for long time.. the essence of a relationship lies in genuine communication. think a guy or gal becomes possessive due to the way he or she is being communicated about anything else related with his/her partner. thanks merw mathew for the wonderful thought..