I think people do not truly 'love' each other anymore. "Love" is now associated with selfishness, desire and sex. This leads to jealousy and possessiveness, which can unfortunately turn violent, like in this case.
True love is never possessive. True love reuqires compassion and selflessness; it means that you love the other person more that yourself, and do everything in your power to keep him/her happy, but do not expect anything in return.
True love reuqires that a couple view each other as free birds, not birds enclosed in a golden cage. And if someone spurns or rejects your love, you should not be broken or angry; you should feel sorry for the other person because he/she would be missing out on a such a lot treasure of love from your heart. maybe someone else would now share the love.
RE:Lack of compassion and selflessness is the cause
by goyyale on May 23, 2008 03:01 PM Permalink
Dude go to bollywood and tell the story.. Who knows .. u can be come a director there///?
Most of the directors run their show by keeping a single story directed in different angles// try there dude.
RE:Lack of compassion and selflessness is the cause
by karthik krishnan on May 23, 2008 05:16 PM Permalink
Honestly, I disagree...I have delved deep into human psyche based on practical situations and impartial observations.
My Findings:
1. You give a woman your attention, she will like it. I have gotten away with looking and even having a look of incredulous admiration while ogling at a woman and had her do nothing but smile back brightly. Because my mouth was shut.
2. But men can't stop there. They have to make a lewd remark. This pisses them off.
3. Men are animalistic. They cannot stop once they find their mate. They still need to keep mating. Women however are not that way...they will move only when they feel suffocated. This is not a generalisation. It holds good in every case.
The woman killing the guy is just an extreme case of aggression in a relationship. Let me promise you even if your woman agrees that you'll have an "open relationship" she is bound to get possessive at some point or the other.
Men need to shape up, or ship their arses our. Simple. I am telling this from practical experience.
I Know how it feels when the one you love is screwing around...and I know what it makes me feel like doing too.
That is common to both man and woman. We need to take a second look on the values and standards in relationships...only that will help us reduce such incidents.
RE:Lack of compassion and selflessness is the cause
by Ayan Roy on May 23, 2008 03:05 PM Permalink
Thanks for copying my message! I'm not being sarcastic. Hope you can spread it to more people.
RE:Lack of compassion and selflessness is the cause
by Rajesh Sharma on May 23, 2008 03:36 PM Permalink
Shame on you JAICHAND,How could you do this to AYAN you copied his entire message and pasted as your own.
As far as I remember you are the one who was very negative and sarcastic about India and Indians in your previous postings.
I Now I have understood who brings shame to India.
