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Are you a victim of office gossip
by SRG on Jun 19, 2008 12:42 PM   Permalink | Hide replies

After being in active work force for the last 13 years,(some of it managerial position) I have come to the following conclusions. If you do not want to be a victim of office gossip do and donts are like this:

One must dress appropriately; Never wear revealing and unsuitable clothes;
Be kind to your subordinates: dont be hauty with them; Even if you like to eat alone at your desk; join others and share your meals;
As far as possible do not have affair with your immediate colleagues;
Be friendly but not overtly friendly with your collegues of opposite sex; You must never touch your collegues; Keep distance; I even prefer not to shake hands with any one; Namasthe would do fine;
Maintain your personal hygiene; Dont reek of sweat, bad breath etc;
Dont laugh loudly; dont speak loudly in the office;phone etc;
Avoid using bad words;
Dont air your personal problems in the office; Dont discuss all your activities with every one.

This is a short list; but I think one can get a picture

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by Sumi Johnson on Jun 19, 2008 01:45 PM   Permalink
really informative

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by NoManLand on Jun 20, 2008 12:22 AM   Permalink
It make sense.

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by sjige dkv on Jun 19, 2008 01:21 PM   Permalink
I think this is for a Govt. employee who just wants to do his work, and wait for pay commission to review his/her salary.

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by SRG on Jun 19, 2008 04:18 PM   Permalink
Well thanks for your input: I did not know that in private sector what ever I have listed is allowed/appreciated though I am closely associated with private sector.Thanks again for enlightening me

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by Ramakrishna J on Jun 19, 2008 01:13 PM   Permalink
Well said.. Really good one !!

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