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Marryhing your best friend
by radhikamruta on Apr 21, 2008 07:42 AM   Permalink | Hide replies

I do not know whether to laugh or cry on this silly question. In fact,marrying your best friend save you all the bothefation you have to face for cultivating the stranger by your side. With a friend you already know his/her plus/minus points and that you have continued to be friends with him/her despite all that eases your post marital burden of tension fearing at every step whether the next step would land you in a pit.If it is pit you are sure he/she will also go along with you or pull you /him/her out.It is always better to have a devil you know than a stranger.

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  RE:Marryhing your best friend
by Mysorean on Apr 21, 2008 08:07 AM   Permalink
I could not agree more with Radhikamruta on this issue. Marrying your best friend is the best thing that can happen to a person. If the so called best friends get married and seperate after some time then, they were simply NOT best friend.One needs to make lots of adjusments and concessions between best friends. In a sucessful marriage too one needs to do the same.This is the one and only one, best kept screet of a sucessful marriage!! Those who adjust and give adequate space to the spouse, are the happiest people in the world

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  RE:RE:Marryhing your best friend
by Vinu V Das on Apr 21, 2008 09:21 AM   Permalink
I Strongly agree.... if two get divorced after their friendship and marriage, they were ever NOT been best friends..... they were pretending that they are best friends..... same as married life.... friendship also need lots of adjustments and understandings......

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