i do know where the world is going , but it is definetely going to end , all those are going against God , be careful , u will judged severely and will be sent to hell , a child can be hit by there parents , dont bring in new things , which may lead u to hell , have a clean conscience and fear God
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by rubertina uttanwalla on Jun 25, 2007 05:51 PM Permalink
dont talk like an idiot, i m sure God himself will punish u if u hit ur children. Being strict is absolutely necessary but that does not mean bashing up kids, that will only make them violent in future. Love and understanding goes a long way in discipling a child (plz do not confuse it with the word PAMPERING)and with regards to the world ending and going against God, it is the adults who have to think about it, not kids. Its we adults who sin more not the kids.
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by on Nov 12, 2007 08:30 PM Permalink
hi ruby,
this is harsh. i am trying to track you for last 4 years after the mistake i made in Mumbai . please if you are the same one i am looking for please reply ASAP. i will be close by oin the 21st.
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by ax jeyaprakash on Jun 25, 2007 04:57 PM Permalink
I am an indian living in UK .I have learnt from UK culture that from early childhood period if you take care of your child well by understanding its needs ( not just food ,sleep ,toilet as most indians think) but also its space,resources for mental development etc to enable child's healthy growth then you dont need to spank your child.If you have integrity and understand your child then ur child will obey your Strict "NO" .This kind of parenting reinforces self confidence in a child .Example in a store a UK toddler(2 yrs) drops a milk can spilling milk .His mother immediately says( dont worry son its only an accident) and asks for a mop to clean from the shop keeper .Also boldy apologising to the shop keeper for the incovenience caused and a quick chit chat that kids are like that .The child sees this healthy environment of acceptance for any mistakes it makes and will follow the do's and donts of his parent .This is the true parenting culture of UK which is an orderly society .Same scenario happened last month for an indian family when a child (2 or 2.5 yrs) picked up toffee jar and dropped spilling the chocolates .Immediately his mother screamed at him and spanked him on his back . Further she didnt properly pick all the toffee spilt and put it in the jar . However shop assistant did the job for her. I conclude that parenting is a skill and if you put enough care then you dont need to spank ur child to enforce the Donts .
