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Live in relationship
by arungopal agarwal on Jul 27, 2007 05:49 PM   Permalink | Hide replies

Our laws of the land are governed by British/Europeon pattern of laws.Our cultural heritage is having no role to play in the long run. For example, legally parents or any close relations have no role to play in child!s marriaage. We can only delay the process of westernising India, cannot stop it.Due to enhencement in marriageable age and legal western type freedom to girls, cases of love marriage are in abundance, we are seldomly listening the cases of live in relationship, tomorrow, they may become common. This social change, India will have to accept in the present circumstances.

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by arun shekar on Jul 27, 2007 06:59 PM   Permalink
it is not about simply western laws blah blah blah. They are as humans as we are. the only difference is that their laws, science etc are more towards realizing human nature and creating atmosphere and social behaviour( which mostly make wrong use of) conducive to our existence but people here are not used to getting close contact with opp sex due to so called culture, religion and society etc etc. So what mostly guys and relatively less girls resort to??? they get a girl in confidence with all those mushy talks and when it comes to commitment, they bail out by giving silly excuses like horoscope, caste, income group, parents etc etc. If people are not educated socially along with book education, emotional scars are imminent. Regarding Live-in, it is all abt personal choice and the person you choose. Do not blame two persons wanting to live together with the wrong decisions you make by choosing the wrong person out of attraction both physically and emotionally rather than evaluating them first

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by anil on Jul 28, 2007 06:10 PM   Permalink
hallo mister the westerners are turning towards india like yoga etc realisng that live in is not helping as no commitment is there and thats why u may have seen newreports forigners interested in marrying indian girls as they are more faithful

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