I would like to ask one and all, who are we to impose our likes on others? Believe me, I do not see anything wrong in this arrangement as long as both parties agree to it. I too have been in such realtionships in the past and have seen nothing wrong in it. May be they are not married, but you could still have the comfort feeling that there is somebody to care for you and share your joys and sorrows with. In many a case, these arrangements have culminated in marraige - happy successful ones at that. In spite of all our so called moral police shouting their throats hoarse, I would still support this arrangement and honestly, if somebody in my family gets into such a relationship, I would support it whole heartedly. My experience in such a relationship has been a pleasent one - my partner and I supported one anther whenever required. As a matter of fact, a lot of married couples in our building were jealous about the way we lived - 6 long years.
RE:live in
by vinay gouri on Jul 17, 2007 02:34 PM Permalink
Rajesh, your case is interesting, but can you tell the story fully? How is it now? Are you married to the same person or how is it? Complete the story please..
RE:live in
by Anil Gulati on Jul 17, 2007 03:00 PM Permalink
Live in relationship can be said to be OK if the couple firmly decides never ever to have children till they get married. If this much understanding can be achieved then and then only the couple should think of going ahead with this kind of so called live in relationship. Greatest tragedy of this type of relationship is the children and should never happen. As a human being one should always understand that ther is no relationship without commitment, the spirit of adjustment and the pleasure of living for others.
RE:RE:RE:live in
by reidf dfd on Jul 17, 2007 03:06 PM Permalink
If live in leads to marriage thats fine..We are talking abt cases where it does not..
there are other relations to care about you and share the joys..mother, father, brother,, aunt, uncle,sister, inlaws, friends..etc, pl open ur eyes ...
no marriage works automatically, ppl have to make it work.. there is nothin like ideal couple, made for eachother...Pl ask ur mom/dad
u dont need six long years to understand someone...
Livin is, free sex, many nights stand...
for all who support this, my final question if a gal comes to u and says i have had 3 livin relations nothing works and she wants to marry u..will u accept her? may be for arguement sake u may say yes...but it doesnt happen in real life..
I agree it happens ..but there is no need for media to hightlight...its individuals choice!
RE:live in
by manu on Jul 17, 2007 02:38 PM Permalink
What if your mother os sis goes and have some kind of live in relation now,would you support this then also?
