well, so many people are giving their own opinions.. fair enough.. good. But let me remind all of you, those who claim that live-in relations is not our indian culture, do very firmly want to have sex with young children irrespective of age factor. people tend to have sex with kids less than the age of 5 as well. all you ppl want too much of sex and now why do u blame the society claiming its not our culture. as long as you are perfect enough to tackle the issues between the couples, there is no problem in living together even not married. therefore, plz do not blame the society better change your mind and attitude and respect and value eachothers woudl be fine enough. hope all of you agree.
RE:don't blame on society
by sumati gayki on Jul 17, 2007 05:19 PM Permalink
Whatever u, pl. don't change the topic. I will not agree with u. Most of the ppl. here oppose this system, n they r correct. In our society sex has value only when it gives a name of marriage. Marriage is stand on trust. Will u trust a gal who has such type of relations with u before marraige ???
RE:don't blame on society
by sudipto chatterjee on Jul 17, 2007 05:48 PM Permalink
There is no question of not trusting a gal in this kind. Actually the prob. with us is not having enough strength to accept the truth.U want to say that this type of relation is not strong & may brack at any time.But don't u think that even after merriage also either lots of relation ought to go to an end or due to some weakness of one it remain but it is become more sadful than separation.
SEX i just a physical activity. Values are something an individual has. It trust is the standing point of a marriage so is a live in. And hey dont give a bull by saying that today's guys and guys are virgins when thay get into a marriage. Nobody would believe that rubbish. Change is something that you cannot stop. Societies, cultures all change over time. The freedom which you enjoy today is b'cos of revolutionaries from earlier generations. Learn to accept change. You may not want to chnge but there is nothing wrong in a live in.
RE:don't blame on society
by Prashant Shah on Jul 17, 2007 05:21 PM Permalink
As a matter of fact though a gal who has such type of relations she definitely will not reveal
