A live-in-relationship is neither a step to understand one's partner better nor a substitute for marriage. It is a convenience just like marriage. It is a relationship just like marriage. The only difference being the social acceptance and legal issue. Some people are not comfortable with the idea of marriage. But want relationship. Want to live with the person he/ she loves. So whats wrong? Those who advocate marriage definitely mean, remain virgin (for both boy and girl), get married and have sex for two years, then have children and after that just live together because you are marred and have a child? May I ask where is marriage? It is only the so-called sanctity of it that most of the married couples live with than the actual marriage. There is nothing western about this concept. It is about convenience
RE:Whats Marriage?
by on Jul 17, 2007 01:20 PM Permalink
I have a question for ppl(including ppl at rediff who came with wonderfull idea) who support this idea....will they accept the same if their daughter/sister is into this
I request rediff editor for his comment....
I expect media to act with some social responsibility..if they say it happens in US...pl post this in rediff US website
RE:Whats Marriage?
by sangya pundir on Jul 17, 2007 01:42 PM Permalink
Stop posting that.. By the way I hav a question for YOU.. wud it be ok with u if ur father or brother or son was into it?? I assume it wud be.. since u only want to talk bout the girls involved. Are u also one of those ppl who treat their sons better than their daughters? I bet u are. sick!
RE:Whats Marriage?
by suryanarayanan d on Jul 17, 2007 02:07 PM Permalink
It is not the question of treating son better than daughter, some biological aspects asks for a girl to be brought up with less freedom than guys. A girl has her own limitations when compared to a guy in such a relationship. Do you think the circumstances for the guy and the girl would be same if they breakup when the couple are gonna have a child? and watch out before you comment tht ppl are sick..
RE:RE:Whats Marriage?
by aishwarya singh on Jul 17, 2007 02:51 PM Permalink
This guy doesn't even have the guts to mention his own name before posting messages like this. Wonder why?
