RE:live in relationship
by Suresh Kumar on Jul 17, 2007 05:29 PM Permalink
Mr.Sr, Will you marry a girl who had not lived in with anyone but only with their parents, BUT WHO is not a virgin?
RE:RE:live in relationship
by on Jul 17, 2007 03:19 PM Permalink
so your basic concern is that if a woman has been in a live-in relationship then she has obviously been sexually active and is hence not the "pure virgin" that hypocritical men like you expect to marry.no one asks a man how many women he has been with before he ties the knot and how many women he continues to associate with even after.P.S: This does not hold true to all Indian Men . I have been living in with a wonderful Indian man for the past 3 and half years and we live as man and wife, just not legally bound, infact nothing much will change in our lives even after we do marry sometime later this year. And for all those men who made comments on the heart being hurt.....it is better to be in a live-in relationship and not working out, that way you hurt ,yes, but you also learn along the way, the next time you will be able to choose wisely.When one marries a stranger and it doesnt work, and both are forced to be together fearing the stigma of divorce, and relatives, that is far worse. I would'nt change my life for anything!
