'Living in' relationships are to a certian extent of the stupid practices adopted in our institution of marriage. We have progressed from type writers to laptops, coins to smart cards... but Our attitude towards marriage never changed.
Women has graduated as CEO's of MNC's from a home maker. Men do drive a BMW and wear an Armani, but the wife in their dream still is a saree clad women with bindi in the fore head, may be a burkha, children cinging to her hands etc. He is yet to have this digested that the car that speeds at 140kmph can have a women in the driving seat.
Living-in relation is mostly a decision made by the new generation women. Men were always ready for a "liability free" sex life. But for women, it is a bold step she is taking or a kind of challenge she is making on the male section who still fancy to live on the money of her father, fancy to get a slave at home and bed, fancy to keep a Sati-savitri at home.
Women today understand her more. She know her wants and desires. Men will no longer be able to hide their inability or weakness under the "sanctity" cover of marriage.
Living-in, is a challenge and the bold one do survive. You might see them desperate and broken after few years. But their life is much better than the prisoners of marriage.
RE:Married......and together in hell....
by rohit c on Jul 17, 2007 03:47 PM Permalink
You r right. Itz good for men, the more the merrier should i say more. Only sufferers are going to be women. If they dont' understand itz their own losing proposition.
RE:Married......and together in hell....
by gk on Jul 17, 2007 03:42 PM Permalink
here comes another messaiah of suppressed hindu victims..stop ur stupidity my dear frnd.. since there some failures and hick-ups, u cant blame institute of marriage in India.. probably u dont know the sufferings of kids abroad !!!!!!
RE:Married......and together in hell....
by genius narayanan on Jul 17, 2007 03:51 PM Permalink
before making a comment...pls have a look at the happening around. Number of people opting to live as singles, number of living relationships, number of divorces...all have exponential growth. Reality is harsh at times. I am not an advocate of living in relationship, but a critic of our hypocracy.
RE:Married......and together in hell....
by karan saluja on Jul 17, 2007 05:24 PM Permalink
boss pl think before putting anything in to the forum like; just a one question to you, do you want to be child of Live in....... couple?? if yes than only put comments like this. rgds
RE:Married......and together in hell....
by Prashant Shah on Jul 17, 2007 06:10 PM Permalink
no 1 wants to be a child of live in couple but at the same time its not ones choice.
RE:Married......and together in hell....
by Prashant Shah on Jul 17, 2007 05:10 PM Permalink
relality is harsh at times. infact reality is always harsh these days.
RE:Married......and together in hell....
by sampath mohapatra on Jul 17, 2007 03:46 PM Permalink
And you do not know the social status and condition of women in India? You are a failure in life, a despot
