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by sukalyan swar on Feb 09, 2007 06:16 PM Permalink
you must have a cordial and firm believe in relationship. We are born in relationship. We can build a relation in no time and also destroy a relation by same. Important is how you maintain the relation. Some times it does not work. But we must be positive when taking or evaluating a relation on own aspect.
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by Ajeya on Feb 10, 2007 02:37 AM Permalink
Dear Sukhwinder... Please learn to think and not just blindly ape & gape at conventions. Always remember that conventions are not made for rigid and blind following but are more as per the need of the times and its perfectly human to re-evaluate them and re-apply them with present needs. the origin of marraige for your very kind information was nothing but plain and simple legalisation of sex so as to restrain the weak & loose minded from running amock in the society... the saat pheras & shlokas followed afterwards to add some more sanity to this process and drill down the meaning further in the in those minds that just can't understand the meaning and significance of human relations unless they are quoted and bound into a set of rules.....grow up sukhi...its high time!!
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by Sukhwinder on Feb 10, 2007 03:05 AM Permalink
Thanks for the advise Ajeya. But I really don't need a lecture in sociology or social morality. I for one could care less for conventions. You are, as they say, preaching to the choir!
I see insomnia is a real big club of Rediff. And rambling on with inane, psuedo-intellectual platitudes seems to be the remedy of choice.
So instead asking me to grow up why don't you go to sleep. You girls/ladies really need to!
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by Shridhar Aiyer on Feb 10, 2007 10:27 PM Permalink
sukhi, you seem to be all about people sleeping well, taking Psychiatric treatment and imposing your unwanted vocabulary on every body else and you seem damn pissed with the world man.. What happened? Are you a English teacher who has been jailed or something..?