To stay single or have a partner is a personal choice. Invaribily it is based on the circumstances at that point of time that the indivadual faces make him pick this choice. It is true that the percentage of people who pick this chocie is very low. I feel that there is nothing to feel great or feel sorry for this. I was married , but my wife expired 5 years back. When she expired our son was just touching 2 and did not even start talking. After that I decided to stay single, as I felt and still feel that true love happens only once. I am both father and mother to my son. He never felt any deficency. I am also a decentely successfull professional.
RE:Being Single
by meetu bhatia on Feb 12, 2007 10:31 AM Permalink
Hello Prem I was reading your opinion on being single.It's true that no one chooses this lifestyle by choice.This is more circumstantial than by choice. It was quite heart rendering to know about ur wife & ur assuming the role of both father n mother to ur little one. And the fact that true love happens only once is also a fact.But I'd just like to add one statement to ur fact . Both mother father r an intergal part to the child's upbringing.So please for the the sake of the litle one if u find someone to can really give all her maternal instinct to ur son don't close the door to that option. Believe me ur son will thank u one day for giving him a complete world & ur life will be truly successful not only as a professional but also as a father & husband. I'm sorry if I've intruded upon our privacy. But after reading ur opinion I felt so i wrote it to you. Meetu Bhatia(bhatiameetu@rediffmail.com)
RE:RE:Being Single
by vikram kapoor on Feb 23, 2007 06:18 PM Permalink
Dear Meetu, i really felt low after reading prem's article but after reading ur's i must confess, u r a very positive women. as far as i'm concirned, i have being in one relatonship for 6 years and one fine day she told me that she's not interested in me. and it took me an year to get out of it. and for doing so, i left my place and even changed my country. i firmly believe that staying alone is mostly circumstancial but one should never loose hope and try to be in a company. for any coments kindly get in touch with m,e at vikram_parivartan@rediffmail.com
