Hi,I'm married before 1 year. I did love marriage. But now i think that is my mistake. B'coz my husband is lazy person & not a active person. I don't have financial support from his home & also from my home. Now sometimes i think I shld change my partner. What shld i do?
RE:Problem
by Jyoti Singh on Feb 08, 2007 02:24 PM Permalink
Oh.. No if you regreating now for this decision, means you have taken it in hurry- burry or bacuase of your infatuation, you took it.dnt reapeat it again by taking seperation desicion, try to convence your husband for right thinghs and doing the thinghs right,
RE:Problem
by madhu t on Feb 20, 2007 08:37 PM Permalink
Please please never ever go for luv marriages. Lluv is wastage of time as well as money. There is nothing such as luv. It's all illusion. By the time ou know the reality it may be too late. So listen to your parents. Please go for arranged marriages or be single and enjoy life. I think second option sounds good...........?
RE:Problem
by priya Sen on Feb 08, 2007 05:10 PM Permalink
I think you need to make your partner realize the problems you are facing in life by going single handedly without his support ...through a proper conversation.give him some time to change as rome was not built in a day....and if even then he doesn't, dump him for Good. it's better to go alone in life than carry an adult who simply doesn't want to change.
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by Dipanjan Sen on Feb 09, 2007 09:58 AM Permalink
Please be a little patient. Just like the saying "be Kind to animals".. apply it to men also. "Be kind to men". Real challenge is to make the relationship work and not to break. Dont think of changing your partner just coz he is lazy.!!
