My congrats to you. Perfect decision. I am a married man with two children living abroad and this is one of the decisions I took 15 years ago, well before my marriage and I never regret it. Sex and relationship goes hand in hand. Don't ever let anybody compare us with other animals afterall GOD only gave human beings the sixth sense. The sense to make decisions. We are not slaves of fate. We make or break our lives. Stick to your decision and you also will never regret it.