I write to you as another 30 year old who turned that corner in March this year.
Well I completely agree with you and your views. I could not have put those arguments and thoughts any better. Forget what your colleagues or other friends think about it, you have my absolute support on your views.
I am confused to the hilt to know about two years back that students do not want to get married because of the 'boredom' associated with a life-long committment. They asked one of my former married colleauge how she could visualise staying married for the rest of her life with the same person??!! And these children were happily doing it in abandoned cars in and around their campus.
Anyway, it was really pleasant reading your views and knowing that I am not alone in this world who holds such 'out-dated', 'out-of-sync.' and 'silly' views on sex and marriage.
Take care and all the best in finding a mature, sensitive, intelligent, humorous person to be your life-partner.
