This is pertaining to the various discussions regarding sex before marriage. Iam amazed at why do we connect sex and marriage. That was relevant during an era of orthodoxy where for an ordianry man marriage was the only means of enjoying sex. I beleive why Sex cant be considered as merely an action for physical gratification ? everytime why bring marriage into the picture. This is the greatest mistake we do as marriage is something totally different. There might be a lot of people who do not want to get married or cnt get married for some reason other than biological. Does it mean that they can never have sex other than with prostitutes? This is the jinxed thought which most of the so called chaste thinking propogate. Sex is a good stress buster which becomes stress creator if it is linked with marriage. Instead of telling do not have sex ( which is against the law of nature) let us advise people to have safe sex.
