I too am one who believes that marriage should be the golden key that unlocks the 'goodies inside'. By all means do have fun, hold hands, pull-hairs, movie together, disco around, date as many as you possibly can, but hold on..no 'spilling' the beans till 'the law' says so! You achieve self-mastery this way and can give the monk who sold his ferrari, a run for his loin cloth!
