Depends on how you define single. Having a one night stand with a complete stranger or maintaining your virginity till your marriage are two extremes. There has to be a middle path. In my opinion, sex is just one way of expressing your love and if you love someone it is fine. I think its better to have sex with someone whom you share an emotional bond whether married or not than have it with a complete stranger just because you married him/her a couple of days ago!! you said you need emotional attachment, i think in arranged marriages, people have sex much before they get emotionally attached which more or less makes it similar to a one night stand! so relax girl try finding your man first and take things from there...rather than listening to what indian society has to say..thats the only way all of us will have a healthy approach on the subject...
