dear Sarah Ribak, thanks so much for the article, and the clarity you have given to a lot to educate the youth and bring about a revelation in our minds. I wish and i wish if all parents get educated and are aware of this, so that the world will be a better place to live in , and if i can suggest its a command in the Bible in the "The ten commandments" Do not look at your neighbbours wife lustfully". it starts all with the very "lust for flesh" and if i can share, we can only overcome by dying to our flesh nature, in order to overcome the fall which we are likely to succumb to. Have known this coz of a very close friend(a lady) who has gone thru a difficult life when she got married when she was 19 to a man who was twice her age. Please keep encouraging the youngsters, so that we all be knowing the very essence of "life" in which we were created for. Not for men to abuse women , and for women to cheat man, Also we will have less problems in addressing Aids issues too. If a man has his wife and they both understand, why should men and women kepp looking at someother sources of "gratifying" the flesh. Thank YOu, God Bless You. Alfonso