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by dr arpan gandhi on Jul 17, 2006 10:19 AM   Permalink | Hide replies

I get angry if things are not in order. if soemone doesnt stick to time dealines and by domestic issues sometimes .

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by bansal on Aug 01, 2006 01:01 PM   Permalink
hi shuchi
i dont know how lod are u, but here i would like to advice u never get angry with them who loves you or u love too.
when ever u are foing to angry with anone once think about the days u spent with them,what they did for youin life, mean would they deserve to face yr anger
in entire world nothing is perfect and nothing in not nonrecoverable every thing takes it own ime and place.
in life try to accept the things becouse the world can not move as your mindset.
cose anger start from that point when u expect some thing in different ways
finally all the best shuchi

bansal

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  RE:anger
by fazil vn on Jul 19, 2006 10:43 AM   Permalink
hi suchi,
Angry is the worst of all expresions.If u do lot
of things correct in firm or in your home, finally if
u get angry, it is gone.I am an angry fellow n bcoz
of this i lost lot of precious things.It will b our love or care to others and if they do wrong,it wil b coming out in form as anger>But most time they wil interpret it as our selfishness or possesiveness and
wil keep away from us.U can reduce it by thinking human values more than material values..saying others the bad effects of their deeds with love rather than shouting with anger ..And finally and to the most praying to God>just think the result if GOD is angry at u...Be calm...Wish u all the best...Spread love :Angry multiplies enemies and love it divides...
Sgned fazil

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by tasneem on Jul 18, 2006 05:34 PM   Permalink
hi prachi i m suffering from the same problem as u r , so i can understand u. i m also a perfectionist and cant tolerate injustice and thats the reason even if i m correct but the way i react to situation and the circumstances that people find my fault and the end i think i m guilty of the whole issue.
one think i would suggest u is love ur children and ur husband and try to think of good things and good times spend with them when u r angry on them or anybody else.i think it works so u also try it out.
i m very fortunate in this case as i have got extrmely loving,caring and understanding hubby.good luck to u.tasneem.

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Do you have an anger problem?