I am grateful to you Shalini, for writing such an article. Yes, it is necessary for us as a society to set our boundaries. You have been quite considerate towards "outsiders" who bluntly harrassed you. I believe you should have been more aggressive to keep them "out," where they belong. Your family has gone thro a great deal. I congratulate you n ur family on showing great deal of courage n understanding and emerging well out of the mess that we, as a society, created for you.
