Hi...my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years has just broken up with me. He went off to college about 1 1/2 years ago out-of-state. We kept contact and still tried to stay together. He cheated on me twice...and a lil bit ago has told me this girl was pregnant...and he thought she had had an abortion but she lied about it. So...I needed my space just to think to myself of what was going to happen.
I love him more than anything...and he cheated about a year ago. Things are so torn apart including me. He broke up with me because he said he didn't know how he felt...then he told me he wanted to break up because he is not in love with me anymore but still loves me...and he wants to try and work things out with this girl. Please help or talk...the pain hurts so much. I feel stupid for forgiving him and taking him back those times...and stupid for even thinking twice about it being able to work with him having a child by her. He says people fall out of love just as quickly as they fall in...i just don't see how this is right he even said it isn't but maybe one day i'll understand. I feel so lost and torn apart..just shattered.
