Gautam buddha said, if someone wants to give you something, it depends on you to acceot it or not. If you will not accept it will remain with him. In the same way if someone abuses you don't answer (don't take it) all the malice will remain with him.
Shamim sent a bad message many people responded, I have sent many messages no one responded. Shamim's one message got many replies.
Please avoid bad message. Don't respond them. Let them go in dust bin.
