My feeling of romance is not when u actually meet your lover, but, the feeling of meeting her.The feeling when u r in the way to meet her is what my idea of romance. That's why i immensely liked this scene of the movie Vivah when Amrita goes to meet Shahid on the roof of her house in the night without anybody's notice. It has picturised so beautifully that u simply surrendered yourself in this less than a minute scene.