Before feeling ashamed or embarrassed about not sucking in olympics, how much encouragement did you give your child in sports? Are u not nagging him to study all the time? Have you given swimming lessons to him or tried to teach him tennis or badminton and tried to spend some time in out door sport activities? If not just shut up. You have no right to think some one else will motivate our children in sports. Honestly tell us how much time u spend in bollywood movies and dances as opposed to sports?