I think it works the other way. If you want someone the listen to you then be respectful and make a point. there is no one in this world who cannot understand a point if explained properly. dont generalize and abuse. today i read a news that p*ork eating has almost stopped in turkey...now this is surprising becuase even the people who followed the islamic faith ate it now with emphasis on their religion they are becoming more religious. so emphasis should be out of religion rather than towards it. btw i read this turkey new on bbc today.