I don't know the details, but I definitely agree with your take on BJP at macro level. They are similar to Congress. Take for example Kargil Episode (we lost 1500 soldiers) and Kandahar. But my question is what alternate do one have. The answer here is to provide life long support to RSS, followed by VHP. I know some people have some complain against VHP. But together we can strengthen RSS and VHP further by adding to their good work/thoughts, and try correct where we think they are lacking.