Dear drunken brother, Most of your community inherits from the ancient Indian society. Your ancestors were cowards as they could not handle the pressure from outsiders & got converted. I have sympathy for your ancestors as they could not be protected & succumbed to pressure. The most strange thing in all this episode is your ancestors were converted by force by outsiders, your ladies were molested by outsiders and still instead of feeling bad about you are feeling proud of your conversion & claiming yourself to be brave.
