Ghatotkach - (or cockroach) anybody who dies a natural death is lucky and cleansed from all sins and accepted by God.. he/she who dies also gets Mukthi from the worldly materialistic pleasures and displeasures and physical/mental pains. However, only due to the affection and sentiments the relatives, fans, friends and other mourn on the death of a person. Ultimately, the soul goes back and joins its origin. my simple advise to you is that, instead of distributing sweets on this occation, you should reserve the occasion when your parents/family member/son/daughter/kith/kin expires.
