why are you worried if some one ask people to talk in his native languave? he did not ask you to talke in marathi he insisted marthi people should start talking in marathi only speak in marathi .why are you upset? only people like you can have this idea of asking peope to werar loogd soory it is nine yard sari you wont understand the beauty of this ask you wife to wear & ask her to go out & see what are reaction she gets?